I hate people say forever. especially those 13, 14 "kids" .. I love you forever and the next week, break up.. ewww... that's so gross and I wanna puke. People can take "forever" so easy ...
they don't even know what's the meaning of forever. You have to take your responsibility on it.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Please be grateful you're still alive
Many people died recently, for no reasons.
And there's a new born. She was handicapped since she was born. her backbones affect her kidney so she will be having an operation after she was born a few months. Her head is much more larger than the normal babies because there's some "fluid" in her head and the fluid compresses her brain to 1 cm. We should appreciate our live. because it isn't easy to be a normal human. Many people are diagnosed with cancer and other sicknesses, there are some advices from me to my beloved friends.
1st, eat more fruits.
2nd, drink more water.. not any alcohol, soda drinks
3rd, sleep early. the best sleeping time is from 10p.m. to 6 a.m. I know we are busy, so try to sleep at 11. even though we have many things to do, but life is more important, right?
4th, regular exercises. Keep your body moves.
5th, don't repress your feelings too much. find somebody to share with it. =)
6th, be optimistic. The sky isn't Grey all the time, the rainbow will come if you believe it will. ^^
7th, be kind.
I'm very scared people whom I know will leave ..... Don't know why, maybe one's life is too fragile...
besides, there are many poverty families in this world. I really feel sorry for them and I hope I can give them a hand in future....
And there's a new born. She was handicapped since she was born. her backbones affect her kidney so she will be having an operation after she was born a few months. Her head is much more larger than the normal babies because there's some "fluid" in her head and the fluid compresses her brain to 1 cm. We should appreciate our live. because it isn't easy to be a normal human. Many people are diagnosed with cancer and other sicknesses, there are some advices from me to my beloved friends.
1st, eat more fruits.
2nd, drink more water.. not any alcohol, soda drinks
3rd, sleep early. the best sleeping time is from 10p.m. to 6 a.m. I know we are busy, so try to sleep at 11. even though we have many things to do, but life is more important, right?
4th, regular exercises. Keep your body moves.
5th, don't repress your feelings too much. find somebody to share with it. =)
6th, be optimistic. The sky isn't Grey all the time, the rainbow will come if you believe it will. ^^
7th, be kind.
I'm very scared people whom I know will leave ..... Don't know why, maybe one's life is too fragile...
besides, there are many poverty families in this world. I really feel sorry for them and I hope I can give them a hand in future....
Friday, March 13, 2009
hey i'm back
finally I can back to my lovely blog's side. haha. crazy me.
erm, 1st thanks ah ling and zhe rou are fine now. so worry about them. thanks thanks thanks.
always healthy ya !!!
2nd, last week I went for a 3 days 2 nights camp in my school. Oh My God, we have so much fun because the facilitators from KL came to train us. I love them so much.. I even cried.. it is the best camp I ever have. We always shouted and jumped...laughed... all have gone crazy. I have a singing, dancing performances and drama there. All of us did very well.. *blink*
the nights I could never forget !!!
3rd, I didn't have voice after coming back from the camp and the next day I have my audition for choir school team !!!!!!!!! OH MY GOD !! but but but.. teacher gave me 2nd chance to have the audition on Friday (today).. I was so so so so nervous..
but finally I was in...... the best news I have this week !! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo .. thanks my god !!!
so late now.. tired.. good night ^^
erm, 1st thanks ah ling and zhe rou are fine now. so worry about them. thanks thanks thanks.
always healthy ya !!!
2nd, last week I went for a 3 days 2 nights camp in my school. Oh My God, we have so much fun because the facilitators from KL came to train us. I love them so much.. I even cried.. it is the best camp I ever have. We always shouted and jumped...laughed... all have gone crazy. I have a singing, dancing performances and drama there. All of us did very well.. *blink*
the nights I could never forget !!!
3rd, I didn't have voice after coming back from the camp and the next day I have my audition for choir school team !!!!!!!!! OH MY GOD !! but but but.. teacher gave me 2nd chance to have the audition on Friday (today).. I was so so so so nervous..
but finally I was in...... the best news I have this week !! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo .. thanks my god !!!
so late now.. tired.. good night ^^
Baby-faced boy is father at 13
The baby father .. Alfie Patten with little Maisie
Lee Thompson
Baby-faced boy is father at 13
BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: "I think it's a lot."
Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.
He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.
The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: "I thought it would be good to have a baby.
"I didn't think about how we would afford it. I don't really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10."
Little family .. Alfie, Chantelle and baby Maisie
Lee Thompson
Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: "When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react.
"I didn't know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it."
Alfie's dad Dennis told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.
Secret
He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle.
And Dennis, 45, said: "He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day."
Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.
They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.
But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle's mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.
And Dennis, 45, said: "He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day."
Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.
They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.
But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle's mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.
Devoted ... Alfie holds and cuddles Maisie
Lee Thompson
After that Alfie's family told only those closest to them for fear he would be "demonised" at school.
Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.
Last night she told The Sun: "I'm tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited."
Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with "really bad" stomach pains. She said: "Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn't know what to do.
"He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.
"We didn't think we would need help from our parents. You don't really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you."
But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.
Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: "We know we made a mistake but I wouldn't change it now. We will be good loving parents.
"I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.
"I'll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad."
Caring .. Alfie bottle feeds his little daughterAfter that Alfie's family told only those closest to them for fear he would be "demonised" at school.
Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.
Last night she told The Sun: "I'm tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited."
Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with "really bad" stomach pains. She said: "Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn't know what to do.
"He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.
"We didn't think we would need help from our parents. You don't really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you."
But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.
Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: "We know we made a mistake but I wouldn't change it now. We will be good loving parents.
"I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.
"I'll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad."
Lee Thompson
Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle's jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans' house.
He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning.
Alfie's dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.
He said: "Everyone is telling him things and it's going round in his head. It hasn't really dawned on him. He hasn't got a clue of what the baby means and can't explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help.
"When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It's crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead."
Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as "a typical 13-year-old boy".
He said: "He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United." Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was "gobsmacked" when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too.
He said: "When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he'd had sex, that he didn't know what he was doing and of the complications that could come.
"I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it's too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby."
Lovely
Chantelle's mum said: "I told her it was lovely to have the baby but I wish it was in different circumstances. We have five children already so it's a big financial responsibility. But we are a family and will pull together and get through.
"She's my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing."
Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: "We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world.
"At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn't working."
Britain's youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.
"She's my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing."
Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: "We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world.
"At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn't working."
Britain's youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.
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